Oh Boy, "post new" once again, thankyou Greg for that. I read a webite most days called American digest. pretty well written and thught provoking expecially compared to some of the silly horse dung we run across on athe web or radio or cable news. found this entry about a most sigular headstone tht offered seats fo two and a very lovely inscription: Take a look
http://americandigest.org/mt-archives/american_studies/puddy.php
The inscription is thus: Come sit with us awhile and share our sorrow. Though you weep share the joyful memories too. Look in your heart: In truth you mourn for that which has been your delight.
For Joy and sorrow are inseparable. Here's the part wher we should say, "ah come on greg...What are we supossed to do now!" Well, I'm thinking thta would make him smile. and a little sad too.