I don't like the tone of these arguments, but, for the record, calling someone a "Nancy Boi" is not going to rise to the level of a hate crime anywhere in the U.S..

I am a fan of the Urban Dictionary (I actually have a couple of entries!) and the term "Nancy Boi" or even "Nancy Boy" is not yet defined.

If it hasn't made it there yet, how are you going to legally define it?

Folks, here is the way I see it, and this happens frequently here.

Stuff is said. If it is said by part of the gang, it slides.

If it is said by someone else, it does not.

While I would always like to be considered to be part of the gang, I believe in treating everyone as equals. Mark should not have made such a big deal about what he considered to be a low-ball offer. Move on. Stop ganging up on him. He is not the incubus. Unless we are going to rip EVERYONE with the same zeal every time they get out of line. Thats gonna be a lot of rippin' thou.......