Your right about the men thing...to a point...her dad dropped dead walking on the beach and she and her sis got his shares...then her sis gets killed by a drunk driver in vegas 3 years later...the drag for me is.....she hates the casino biz...she's a vet and has her own practice and stays in the background with the casino stuff as much as possible...her dad was the the main man behind it all and when you walk in the place you'll see a hudge painting of him...no one Indian can own an entire casino.
BUT.....she's slowly comming around and backs me up in chip collecting....so hopefully I'll become a good active member and from what I've seen so far...everyone in here is a bunch of good guys and gals.