Irina - Your posting was very moving. I'm touched. With some of the money already sent to you by the generous readers of this board, please purchase an airplane ticket and come to Minnesota. I'd be very happy to have you live with me. I will also be most proud to feed, shelter and take care of you at my large mansion. You may have the entire West wing. Please come soon, I'm waiting. My address is: 123 Main St., Anytown, Minnesota.