If your last name doesnt being with G., post using first name, Last name initial like I and many of the ladies do...
(we get a false sense of security because the stalkers can't see who we are... until in my case, you see my email address - which gives out enough info to have me killed

But we have another awesome, vocal (or typ-al) and frequent CCGTCC member named Pam (Pam G.... and one of her email addresses advertises PORKCHOPS

Otherwise - you'll get a major hard time here (because our adored PAM G probably deserved it = and then you'll be REAL confused... and mad at some guy (who will be real confused) which will make you more confused because he should know why you're confused...
... just a suggestion?