"Bob, I apoligized last night."

For what? And where?

"But your leader Jay didn't accept it."

Who's leader? While there may be a level of respect given to some of the folks in this club that have been involved in the hobby longer or have done more research, we are all equal when we face each other. This is a freaking hobby! Make friends, have fun! ...I know I wasted time with that paragraph but I had to write it.

"My deal with Jill was very fair."

Not as far as she was concerned, and I agree with her.

"It wasn't nice what I said about her."

It wasn't nice, it wasn't civil, it was malicious and hateful.

"I am certainly willing to apologize to her directly. I don't want to argue with you or anybody."

You are too late. Go away. Get help, because you don't have rational thought processes. Come back when you resemble a rationally thinking person.

Bob