That was a very nice post and I realize you meant no personal offense. Your post shows that you are a person of intelligence and sensitivity. I was less than accurate in calling you ignorant - your remark was ignorant, not you. Each of us at one time or another says things that are off or insensitive without meaning to. The same, however, cannot be said about your friends who attacked me. They know who they are and I would hope they never again address me in any forum. Apology accepted.