I got another email from the seller, this time she said to email her when I receive the item, tell her that I'm satisfied, and THEN she'll leave positive feedback.

I emailed back to her that apparently I wasn't explaining myself well....I'd sent payment and shouldn't HAVE to do anything else before receiving feedback. I sent her a link to this thread.

Awhile later I got an email saying that she was on her way to leave positive feedback for me. I checked, and she did.

I emailed and thanked her for the feedback, and told her I'll let her know when the item arrives and (assuming I'm satisfied with the item) will leave positive feedback for her.

Geeeezzz....I hope I like the ashtray!!