... the same thing. I had one older brother who got his exersize beating me up everyday! My mother told me 'If he didn't like you he wouldn't pick on you", my reply was "Well, then he's gonna think I LOVE him!" as I dug out my baseball bat! When I was sixteen I finally beat him up, we got along great ever since. He died at 48 (during by-pass surgery), the age I am now, I sure miss him. I guess mother was right.