Somehow your language and incredibly crude dialogue are obscuring your message!

"Few recognize that I offer an outsider's view and actually am trying to help."

help
help/Submit
verb
1.
make it easier for (someone) to do something by offering one's services or resources.
"Roger's companion helped him with the rent"
synonyms: assist, aid, lend a (helping) hand to, give assistance to, come to the aid of; More

Seems to me you need help!