EBay has changed over the past few years since Meg left. It's 100% now for the buyers. Not only can't you leave feedback in that case, even if you did complete a sale and the buyer didn't pay for 5 months you can not leave what they call a negative green doughnut, where you make a negative comment but leave a positive feedback, which by the way is your ONLY option as a seller. It really sucks I know.

It could have been worse he could have went through with the sale and left you negative feedback for any reason he wants. Sad but true, I just have been through this. The negative feedback wasn't even for a valid reason and eBay says nothing they can or will do for me as a seller.