WOW--and I thought I was doing everyone a favor with my post.

Here is some facts:---
after 5 days I had to remind the winning bidder that I would appreciate payment or to drop me an email if there was a problem. The buyer responded by saying I will send payment within 2 days, and he did.
Now it took 7 days for the buyer to pay when in fact my ebay posting stated payment upon winning item.
Then after I received the payment, I still gave him a positive feedback.
Note: Price was very low, postage was what it cost, he received item in 2 days, perfectly packaged, Items was in mint condition, and I didn't post his name or address on this board in case he was a member---but I will still give it to anyone who wants it.

Oh yes, feedbacks are voluntary

Sorry I bothered everyone