My post was in RESPONSE to other posts about what a wonderful person he was. Those posts were hurtful to those who had unpleasant experiences with him and i spoke up on their behalf. My original post was only to express that point of view. It later blew up when others attacked me and others mentioned what those unpleasant experiences were about. I am sorry that my post went beyond where I thought it would go and became so negative. For that I have learned a lesson.