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AOL Desktop is something I was no longer able to use once I
switched to a Mac. I couldn't get updates. etc.

When I had dial-up back in 2001, i paid to use AOL. A few
years later, with DSL, I began using the free AOL. I have
not heard anything on updates there. When I switched to
a Mac, I learned that AOL Desktop wouldn't update and
stopped using it.

Unless you download the update, they cannot charge you. I
would suggest you call them and ask about the free AOL.

As to what happens to your email if you don't upgrade:
https://help.aol.com/articles/what-happens-to-my-email-if-i-do-not-upgrade-to-aol-desktop-gold

Other answers:
https://www.google.com/search?q=AOL+Desktop+Gold&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8

Hope this helps. Please keep us posted.
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