Pauma certainly has a family feel to it that the others you mention don't have.

I'm actually going there tonight with my 19 yo son for their Friday poker tournament.

Free Buy-in with $10 re-buys and a $20 add-on.

Pauma's poker room is tiny (5 tables) and the tournaments are mostly hyper turbo in structure, but it is the only casino in all of Northern San Diego County that is 18+, instead of 21+, so my son can play..