I really have no idea what you are talking about. I'm 64 and I've been using public restrooms (men's, of course) all my life. I have NEVER seen a penis in a public restroom other than my own. And I've never shown my penis to anyone else in a public restroom. Maybe I live a sheltered life. Is penis-showing a thing in North Carolina?

You say, "use the bathroom better suited for their biological tools." What about the person who has had the original tool removed, and replaced with one more suited to their self-image? That's a thing now, you know. Even if a transgender person hasn't had the surgery yet, who's business is it what they have in their pants? Why should I have to present my tool for government inspection prior to using the restroom appropriate for how I dress and live? These people aren't interested in "making a point." Most would just like to be left alone. They don't want the rest of the world telling them who or what they are.

The only people forcing this whole thing into the news, and causing knee-jerk reactions like creating "transgender restrooms," are the stupid politicians in North Carolina with their homophobic agenda. Those are the people you should vent your anger at.