not be so quick to jump...
to conclusions..
that we may need to take a moment
because we really never know
who we are bringing a charge against.
Wither it is a fellow member or not...
only listening and tolerance
will lead to fruitful discourse that allows us
if at best to "agree to disagree"..
without damaging others feelings..
As in my situation I believe the member had they had known
I was a fellow member who won the auction
would not have been so critical..
It seems people are very quick to jump to conclusions some times..
i.e. got a bigger offer...etc.