Thank you, Pam. I was not aware there was an issue regarding that which you wrote. Nonetheless, when folks behave in a judgmental manner it can, and often does, exact harm; however, it is helpful when people are made aware, and then are able to recognize it is ALWAYS about the individual(s) who behave in this vein and is never about the person(s) on the receiving end - for whatever that may be worth; although it is my sincere hope this information is helpful to those who may not be cognizant of this dynamic. In my experience it is not often folks are aware that this is, in fact, is the true underlying nature in situations such as this. Thank you kindly for your compassion!