to stir the pot. I did not mean to step on any toes or hurt any feelings. If I did i am sorry. I did mean to make people stop and think. We all need to do that once in the while. I was glad to see all the replys and I read every one and tried to answer them honestly. Thank you all for getting involved. I am not always right, but I always have an opinion. Next time some one else has to stir.