"My lesson learned is that I should never color in before I leave the tables. In the future, I will walk away with my chips, cash them in and then rebuy in at the next table." Probably a good idea Judy, but I'm not a rated player so I can't offer you any advice other than to say ... if it were me; I would be looking for another host.
Having said that, I would be happy to show you and your husband some of the nicer non-casino places in A.C. that not too many visitors explore, or are aware of, when they are in town.