From my heart, I know that it takes time to heal, and it helps to talk about the issue at hand. While we are all still realing from the ordeal, different people deal with it differently.

If it would help to make all involved feel better, then I think you should do what you need to do to help with closure.

I know dad is having a memorial service in January on behalf of mom, and I urge the fine folks of this forum to attend if possible. We all loved mom in so many different ways.

Thank you for honoring our mother with all the kind gestures, I know that dad appreciates it very much.

Thank you,

The kids