I have friends with whom I disagree with vehemently, and often, and I love them for it. We are not robots! And there is a difference between questioning your intellect, and questioning your intellectual honesty. I don't imply that you are dumb, just that you are not being honest with yourself if you buy the b.s.!!!!
And it might surprise you to know that I AM voting for Obama, I chose him via the "making lemons out of lemonade" method of selection. That does not mean that I am buying the full party line, 'cuz it is ABSOLUTELY INTELLECTUALLY DISHONEST, at least IMHO.
Best,
Jerry