I like the way you replied to the first half of the sentence and not the end. I never stated that it doesn't belong here, just that the topic has been discussed. If you didn't want any responses or people to discuss it, THEN YOU SHOULD NOT POST IT. Like I stated earlier, I am familiar with your situation about your fathers passing. You still haven't answered the question, "What were your fathers wishes"

Bottom line you come off as a bitter, bitter man.

If you don't like my reply then you can GO AWAY.