Finally
"Today is a day to JUST REMEMBER ALL THOSE LOST "
Precisely! And its something you do peacefully, just like when you remember the WW dead. Not by saying "Ok, lets go and shoot another 100,000 Iraqi's.
"NEVER FORGET" the war on Iraq was based on a false statistic that both our leaders deliberately lied to the world about. WMD could be active in 45 minutes. I guess thats why its ok to use statistics to justify how many foreigners have to be killed for revenge to be complete?