While everyone is entitled to their opinion, I personally have made great efforts to make sure that values such as compassion and tolerance for those hurting, in need and tolerance of the ideas of others a major goal in raising my kids. If either one had spouted out something so pathetic my first question would be "Where as a parent did I go wrong"? While PATHETIC is too gentle of a word it's the most socially acceptable.
In short, there's a word in the English language called "Charity". Perhaps becoming a bit more familiarized with that word would solve a few of the screwed up messes this world is in today.