I quit trying to decipher all the scenarios people are tendering-

I actually get paid for this, and it has reached the point where it is more work to keep up, then my actual work.

The short and sweet is this, if you try to get something for nothing, you are screwed. If the other person gets something for nothing, he is a smart businessman (or an ex wife).

For those who say it isn't fair, your right, but who said life was fair?

My advice to all of you is...

Try and deal honestly with each other, if we all do so, then the world is a much better place.