This post is for the few small minded men that seem to be so fascinated with my sex life. Let me set the record straight with this post....

I understand that this hobby is predominantly comprised of men. There are few women in the hobby. That being said, do not assume that the female members are here to “pick up” on the men.

I also understand that many of you have very old fashioned ideals...which isn’t necessarily a bad thing...I can understand that. I realize that in “your day” you were not seen in public with a single woman unless she had a chaperone!

Well gentlemen (and you know who you are)...frankly, your Victorian ideals are outdated. This isn’t the 6th grade anymore....grow up and stop passing notes about the girl in the second row as to whether she “puts out” or not. It is possible for a woman to be friends with a man without sleeping with him.

So...as far as setting the record straight, let me intercept your little note passing and tell you a little about the girl in the second row.....

I’m fortunate to have many friends....I have friends that are female..(oooo...does that make me a lesbian??).....I have friends that are men...(ooo...does that make me a slut?)....I have friends of various sexual orientation...(ooo...that means they’re gay...)....I have friends of many different ethic backgrounds...(ooo...wonder what that could mean?)....

To the few pin heads that can’t quite grasp this concept, if you had more friends of your own, you wouldn’t be so concerned with mine and what I’m doing with them.

Stop passing your little juvenile notes....get on with your lives...stop fantasizing about mine!

Obviously, this post wasn’t meant for everyone....again, you know if you fall into the pin head category....

Katie