"The added tip is not a personal affront to you."

I take it personal. What IM talking about is where you sit down with a large party and they write the service charge in. I look at it as what did they look at me and think IM not going to tip good.

I happen to be an over tipper. How I explain it to people who are with me and say why did you tip so much or don't leave so much I say the few extra dollars don't mean anything to me, but did you see how happy the waiter/waitress was when they got it. That makes thier day. Barry