I understand completely....

but when it is under duress.....

It's like the story of the lady who said; "you have to hold the door open for me because I'm a woman" ... to which I slammed the door in her face.

hahahaha

When I was a kid I stayed in trouble because of what people told me I WAS or WAS NOT going to do.. it seemed like a challange. Otherwise I would have been delighted to comply!