Why is this issue a such a source of constant criticism and debate ad nauseum out on this board ????????

HERE'S THE BOTTOM LINE .......

When you are sitting home alone with your bid button on your mouse you are essentially in a "voting booth" and are completely free to do whatever you want ........... why doesn't everyone .......

... Just include the stated s&h, whatever it may be, in your final decision as a part of your total offer and bid accordingly ....... ????

Then live with the results and not need to ever whine to the seller or in public or make an issue of it again ?????

Sounds pretty simple to me !!!!!