I am new to these boards, but I can tell you that this is not the place for insults. How many newbies to the hobby might get turned away from the hobby and this board by reading such B.S. as you just wrote. True or not, private email is the place for such slander and not this board. Your discussion is "HE said SHE said". But keep it between you two and leave the board out of it.
This is not what the hobby needs.