Matt you are right that is the way things ‘should’ be but they are not.
On a similar tangent…..
It’s true, often communication or lack there of causes a lot of undue riff in relations. As far as what is posted, someone pointed out; the posts reflect the people, as the people change so does the posts. One thing that I realized about text conversations was that it is hard sometimes to tell if a person is smiling when talking and we often misinterpret the thought. On the good side prejudices are neutralized, you often do not know anything other than the thoughts of the other person.

Pictures too can be interpreted in many ways…. Take this on for example… LOL