"I'm one of the nicest people and I am a
gentleman."

Gentlemen and nice people don't suggest that a lady who that person has never met needs surgical improvements to their physical characteristics. Jill Bitner is a beautiful lady.

"I do not like to insult anybody ever."

Then don't! I do things I don't like doing, but they all involve work, not the way I treat people.

"But look at the way Jay talks about me. I'm only
defending myself."

What you are defending is your own already dug holes, defending wrongs that you have done to many people in this community.

Please seek medical help.

Bob