Jill - try www.mormon.org/question/faq. That might help. I only know one Mormon couple, who work where my wife used to work. I only saw them at the annual Christmas party. They ate with everyone else, but for the rest of the evening, they just sat at the table like statues. Never talking, smiling or anything else. They don't believe in dancing, loud music, drinking, gambling, or any other "vices". Try the web site, it might help. All this from another Lutheran, who believes in all of the above!