Jay, is the nickname of "Rainman", as you have given him, in reference to the movie whereas Dustin Hoffman plays the character? If so, this screwed up soul that has interrupted this board has a long way to go to reach the I.Q. level of the character portrayed in the movie. Although, I do agree that a small amount of pity might be well placed when considering this individuals current state of mind and prospects for the future. Both you and William write very well. I enjoyed reading your posts.